Jan 17, 2023
How To Be Awesome At Seeing The
Best In People
You know when you
react badly to something or you’re just in a funk and say something
that comes out totally rude…
And the person
that you’re interacting with gives you a pass. Like just
tells you - I get, totally ok. And you’re just so relieved and
feel the stress of it escaping your body. It is a
great thing to do for someone else.
Now we aren’t
talking about letting people walk on us
or forgiving everything right away, we are talking
about understanding that we don’t always know all the things
that someone else is going through. And to be able
to be compassionate and understanding is
an awesome thing.
To
be able to ignore things that don’t matter or let go of a
rude comment that was said and see the best
in people.
There is
so much good that comes from it- for what you put out
in the world and how you make other people feel… but also
for controlling the amount of stress that you let into your
world.
The goal of
this podcast is to set you up to see the best in people.
So you’re a bit more understanding, give people a
pass, and control the headspace that you live
in.
Often times our
culture sets us up to attack people if they say
the wrong thing or do the wrong thing .
This podcast is
the opposite, it’s about focusing on the very best
in people. And know you don’t know the rocks
in their shoes. Even if it’s not what feels natural that’s the
best part.
-You find what
you are looking for. If you’re looking
for something to complain about, you’ll
find.
-The lens you put
on when you leave the house is the way you see things.
-Give people
a pass, you never know what they are going
through.
-You have the
power to forgive someone or react in a way that is
unexpected.
-You control
if something gets you fired up.
-Rather than
light someone up, why not forgive them, THEN adjust how you
interact with them in the future.
-Gary
Vee says..
Being nice is
always ROI positive
Being abrasive can win in the
sort term, but not in the long term.
-Guess what?
Things travel so much faster than they used to. 20
years ago, if you were a jerk in San Diego, you could move to
San Francisco and start over. Now, it follows
us.
-Don’t be less of
a person because someone else was.
-As you push
yourself to be a better human being, better things
start happening to you.
-The next time
you’re in a situation where you’re like how do I react to this
situation?
Lean into seeing
the best in people. Know you likely don’t know the
full story and it’s always better to come in with
understanding and compassion.
CHEERS
to being awesome at seeing the best
in people!